If you’re like me, you are running around like crazy preparing and planning for the holidays.
If you’re like me, you are running around like crazy preparing and planning for the holidays.
Ho! Ho! Ho!
If you’re anything like me right now, you’re eagerly tidying up 2014 to bring on the holidays and 2015.
(And I hope you’re having a little fun doing it as my colleague Meredith Schoenberger …uh, I mean Santa Claus … and I did last week during the Women on Fire Holiday Live Chat!)
Before we say goodbye to the year, I want to share with you the five questions I am most frequently asked.
These questions come to me all year long either in emails or private conversations or in public talks or forums. Some are personal; some are serious; all are asked with love and genuine curiosity.
1. Debbie, you’re so positive. You’re so perky. Are you ever in a bad mood?
Hahaha! I was tempted to invite my husband answer this question.
Born on June 25, I am a Cancer, a Moon Child, so I wax and wane with the moon.
When I was a little girl, my mother would exclaim of my flair for being emotionally up or down (sometimes every other minute), “you’re sooooo dramatic and moody!”
I wish I knew then what I know now. I would have flung myself across the floor and implored of her, “But, Mom, I am a Cancer, trying to express myself, and I am being mysteriously controlled by the moon!!”
I AM a positive person, and I see the glass half full, but that doesn’t keep me on occasion from being cranky, sad, angry or depressed about something upsetting.
Fortunately, after years of therapy and personal development, and at a stage in my life where I am happy, content and deeply fulfilled by my marriage, work, friends, family and colleagues, I have strategies to cope with the times I’m less than my happy self.
Chiefly, I stop the action and ask myself what is really at the core of my upset or mood. Self-awareness is key to living your dreams — and peace of mind.
No one can stay perky 100% of the time. Including me. (I am tempted though to ask Katie Couric how she does it?!)
2. Do you believe every person has a (fill in the blank) gift/spark/passion/purpose?
Yes, I do!
I’ve talked with and coached thousands of women over the years, and unless someone was profoundly and clinically depressed, I have always seen a spark inside of every single person.
She may not feel it. She may not even believe it’s “in there.” But it is.
Best-selling author Deepak Chopra once said that the single greatest job a parent must do for their child is to help them find their gift, their purpose, their passion.
Some of us are lucky and know it early on. Others of us spend our lives seeking it.
But yes, your passion is in there and it is our parents’ jobs to help us find and nurture it when we are young. And, if we haven’t found it by the time we’re adults, we must make it our quest.
And age is no barrier to finding, embracing, and manifesting your gifts.
3. I’m not on fire. How can I get in touch with my passion – and how will I know when I find it?
Do you remember a time you were “on fire” in your life? If so, that’s what finding your passion feels like. You are utterly absorbed. It doesn’t feel like work. You’d do it for free. It feels right.
Here are two quick ways to find your passion:
Slow down and listen to yourself. Read. Explore. Allow yourself to feel. Go for joy, whether it’s volunteering at an animal shelter, baking a great pie, or skiing down a mountainside. Whatever brings you joy, do more of it!
Ask others you trust what they see are your gifts, strengths and talents? Often, those closest to you, including children, know what you are special and gifted at doing – even if you aren’t sure.
Why should you put in the effort to find your passion? You will spend the rest of your life way happier and more fulfilled!
4. Don’t you get tired listening to people’s problems all the time?
Although I no longer have a one-on-one coaching practice (I’m too busy running Women on Fire!), I have coached women for nearly two decades. I consider it an honor when people share with me their deepest dreams, desires, pain and disappointments.
A great coach (therapist, teacher, parent, friend) remains separate from the person who entrusts them with their heart and soul.
The truth is I am actually enlivened when I get to share in women’s lives as they search for, discover, struggle and go for their dreams – bumps and all!
I have never been tired by the gift of listening to someone genuinely and authentically share her journey.
What is tiring — and why I suspect I get this question — is because we all know someone who is a help-rejecting complainer.
These are people who have no intention of a better life although they claim otherwise. They live to complain, throw up roadblocks, make excuses, tell you why it won’t work, and in general, stay stuck and miserable. No matter what you do to help!
That’s tiring. It’s not the Women on Fire way of living so you don’t have to worry about that here!
And, while I’ve placed it as the fifth question, the question I am asked MORE than any other is …
5. What about Men on Fire?
The fact that this question is on so many women’s (and men’s) minds tells me there is a crying need for a way for men to connect as we do here at Women on Fire.
Because I hear this question so often, I’ve wondered about it myself. And I believe that Women on Fire receive so much joy and connection from this community that they want it for their husbands, boyfriends, partners, sons and male friends, too.
Many of you know my husband Rob Berkley is an extraordinary executive coach who works with a lot of men. So I know from his work, too, that there is great need.
I believe in the future there will be a “Women on Fire” for men to gather in ways that suit their particular needs just as we’ve done here.
In the meantime, the greatest gift we can give the men in our lives is to be our full and radiant, confident and loving selves. It’s inspiring for men and women alike to see a woman go for it!
Thank you for your questions. I’m always happy to answer whatever is on your mind.
Thank you so much, too, for being a part of this ever-growing circle of thousands of women dedicated to being your best.
I’ll be back next week for the final SPARK! of the year.
Then, together we’ll welcome a new year and a fresh start to making your dreams come true. What is it you want to be telling me a year from now about your life?
With holiday shopping in full swing, have you thought about giving someone the gift of a private session with a New York City style consultant, or a few hours of coaching or yoga, or delicious cookies, or inspiring cards, prints, or stationery?
These are just a few of the gifts and services our Women on Fire monthly members have to offer. And you can purchase just in time for the holidays!
It is my pleasure to introduce the first Women on Fire Directory of Gifts and Services (you receive a free listing when you are a monthly member) where you will discover a variety of gifts and services suitable for the holidays as well as all year long!
Happy shopping! And have a wonderful holiday ~
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P.P.S. Wait, wait, there are more holiday gift possibilities…be sure to check out our NEW Women on Fire store where you can purchase a collection of our favorite products and programs!
If you haven’t seen this video, please watch how this young mom makes a dream she’d held for 10 years finally come true. (Warning: you will need a box of tissues!)
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After I watched this video, and cried, I kept thinking about Kellie Haddock of Orlando, Florida and her 10-year dream to thank the men and women who saved her baby son’s life.
How many dreams have been living inside of you for the past five years? Ten years? Twenty years?
Kellie shows us so powerfully how her dream happened and that it is never too late to pursue what is in your heart. Recently, she said after years of dreaming her dream, “now the reality far exceeds the dream.”
Maybe you have a long-held dream that seems impossible or impractical; or a desire that you’re too fearful to pursue; or a wish that you barely remember because it’s been buried inside for so long.
You never know what’s going to happen when you put your dream out into the world. Except chances are, when you act on your dream, you will touch someone — or many someones. Just as Kellie did.
As of this moment, Kellie’s thank-you project video has been viewed YouTube by nearly three million people – and that’s in just one week!
Kellie’s 10-year dream actually launched an even bigger dream of hers. Yes, she wanted to thank the medical personnel who helped her during her unimaginable tragic journey in 2004. But what she really wanted is to make the world a better place.
And, isn’t that really the purpose of making your dreams come true? To create a little bit of Heaven for someone else – or maybe the world?
“What if we all spent a little more time focusing on what’s right instead of what’s wrong?” Kellie wrote in her most recent blog post. “There’s no shortage of everyday heroes out there— let them know what they mean to you. How many people can we thank together?”
Kellie’s courage — to revisit her tragic story and make her long-time dream to thank people who are rarely, if ever, thanked come true — most likely transformed her life — and now millions of others.
In honor of Kellie, I am joining her #saythankyou campaign. I invite you to join too.
Here is all you have to do:
1) Think of an everyday hero that’s made a difference in your life.
2) Grab your phone and film your “thank you.”
3) Post your short video on Facebook and challenge your friends to do it too.
4) Tag it #saythankyou
Here is my video to thank a hero in my life.
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Thank you, Regina Blos, for your vision, intelligence, courage, perserverence, love and caring. You make my life and our world so much better!
OK, you’re next! Who is a hero you want to thank?
And while you’re at it: what long-held dream do you have? Taking a step toward one of your dreams and thanking a hero is a winning combination, for sure.
Have a wonderful week! And I’ll see Women on Fire monthly members on the Holiday LIVE CHAT on Tuesday evening.
Enjoy some of our favorite gifts for the upcoming holiday season!
1. Hillary: The Photographs of Diana Walker ($28) 2. Happy Mail by A Beautiful Mess ($20) 3. Table Topics ($25) 4. Gold Luxe Pocket Planner by Sugar Paper LA ($10) 5. Silpat Baking Mat ($18) 6. What I Wish For You Journal by Knock Knock ($10)
1. Magic Carpet Yoga Mat ($89) 2. Eden Scarf by FashionABLE ($65) 3. Comfort Zone by Trudy Dujardin ($48) 4. Vegan Leather Weekender by Sole Society ($70) 5. Wool Throw by Faribault ($79) 6. Year of Wishes Candles ($49)
1. Momofuku Milk Bar 3 Month Subscription ($175) 2. Glacier Necklace by J.Crew ($125) 3. Alpaca Grey Shawl by Cuyana ($195) 4. Long Pajamas by Marigot Collection ($132) 5. Down Sweater Jacket by Patagonia ($229) 6. Teddi Tote by Gigi New York ($295)
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This month’s Books To Live By selection is nothing short of confectionary perfection and a “must have” for your kitchen!
From world-renowned pastry chef and award-winning New York City bakery owner Dominique Ansel comes a delicious inside look at some of his most celebrated recipes.
Our December selection is….
It’s no secret that I’m a BIG fan of the sweets and treats that Dominique Ansel creates, and his new cookbook is no exception. This book is a true masterpiece, focusing as much on the inspiration behind his creations as on the delectable pastry recipes.
I found it nearly impossible to flip through without wanting to dust off my baking supplies, and the gorgeous photography by Thomas Schauer is itself almost good enough to eat. You’ll relish the Chocolate Pecan Cookies, the gluten-free (yes, gluten-free recipes too!) Christmas Morning Cereal, the Frozen S’mores, and of course, the famous Cronut™!
Dominque Ansel: The Secret Recipes would make the perfect gift for dessert lovers and for anyone who likes to get creative in the kitchen! Food Network claims this book “brings bakery magic into your home kitchen,” and I couldn’t agree more!
Here’s to having a little more magic this winter with some help from Dominique Ansel!
Time to bring everything outside inside. So, I took one last swing on my hammock in the autumn chill and sunshine today for the last time in 2014.
Surveying the dead and crunchy leaves around me — leaves that were tender green shoots only months ago — I began to feel sad about the passage of time.
I got teary thinking about holidays past with treasured relatives who are long gone.
Then, I began to panic about everything I need to accomplish before the end of the year. Before you know it, I was in the middle of an end-of-the-year, melt-down muddle!
As the year closes in, are you feeling sad, or pressured, or as though things are falling apart? Or, are people around you melting down?
If so, it is not in their imagination, or yours, or mine! Talk to any therapist who will tell you that stress is more pronounced this time of the year than any other.
The pressure of holidays coming so close together, tied with deadlines to wrap up the year and start a new one, can leave you feeling like you’re running a marathon on a hamster wheel!
Add to it the expectation that we are to be happy and of good cheer during this time of year when biologically we were designed to withdraw and hibernate — and no wonder holiday times can take a toll on us.
So, as many of us gather this week for Thanksgiving, it’s a good time to remember what can give you comfort, lift you up, and keep you sane:
On the Women on Fire monthly members’ LIVE CHAT recently, we talked about a special process to help you focus your time and energy to get the most joy during the holidays. It starts with making a list of the 8-10 people who are THE most important of all and putting your time and attention on them!
Have a beautiful week. I hope you find yourself at peace and celebrating in ways that uplift you.
I will be on Martha’s Vineyard for Thanksgiving with my husband Rob and close friends — and am looking very forward to a relaxing time, creating new memories with people I love.
That tinkling sound you’ll hear? It will be me toasting you!
For all your love and support and my enormous gratitude that you are in this amazing circle of fabulous women (and quite a few men) making the world a better place.
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Welcome back to our ongoing series to introduce you to each other. She’s a Woman on Fire! member and we want you to know her. Please say hello to…
Originally from Houston, Texas, and now living in Killarney, Ireland
Member since: July 16, 2012
Please tell us about YOU, your family and your work. What are you “on fire” about?
I am on fire about where I am in my journey. In 2014, I moved to Ireland to be closer to my partner, Noel, and his sons, Sam and Christopher. We are building a family in which love and life are celebrated — along with all major Irish and U.S. holidays!
I changed my employer so I could select my own location and keep doing work that energizes me. All of this stemmed from a Vision Day with Debbie Phillips in July 2013. It was my birthday present to myself. I highly recommend it!
How did you originally connect to Women on Fire?
I connected through a wonderful person, Woman on Fire Melissa McClain. She told me about an amazing woman that I had to meet named Debbie Phillips. She introduced us, and the rest of the story is a rich, delicious history of a life better lived.
What is your favorite part of the day?
I love crawling into bed, as I am a huge fan of sleep. I particularly love the moment I’m comfy in bed after a productive or happy day, when I can name a long list of what I am grateful for in my life before I drift off. I try to end every day with gratitude.
What is the last book you read that you would recommend to other Women on Fire?
Daring Greatly by Brené Brown. I am a huge fan of hers and of the concept of “being in the arena.” Fellow Woman on Fire Lani McKinnon introduced me to Brené, making her even more special to me.
What is the one thing you’re most proud of?
I am proud that in late 2013, during some of my darkest moments — I was exhausted with shingles, lonely and stressed — I listened to my dad, who told me to focus on the positives, and I found the faith to improve my situation. I am also proud that I was smart enough to ask for help.
If you had an unexpected free day, how would you spend it?
There is an amazing beach, Rossbeigh, not too far from Killarney. I would ask Noel to take me there.
What is your favorite city in the world?
I am a traveler at heart, so I will say it is the city I haven’t visited yet. I always like to see new places!
Name a Woman on Fire who has inspired you and tell why.
Jan Allen inspires me every time we speak. One of the ways I sought help during late 2013 was by hiring a coach. I chose Jan because she and I share the similar experiences of embarking on a relationship later in life and then building a family with our partner’s children. I thought I was only hiring a coach, but what I got was a coach, a loving mentor and a friend. It is as her stepson Michael told her: she gives “mind power.”
What’s your big dream?
I am living my big dream! I moved to Ireland to be with Noel. I was able to start my own business and keep doing work I love. Plus, I am having so much fun! The side benefit of a nonlocation-dependent job is that I can be where I need to be, when I need to be there, such as at birthday parties and weddings or in hospital rooms.
I have family and friends across the globe who enrich and bless my life. The only thing I could add to this big dream would be to receive a phone call from Oprah Winfrey asking me to work with her! I’ve changed that a bit, as I used to say I wanted to work for her.
If you had the opportunity to teach a child one strategy that would help to guide her life, what would that be?
I would flip this a bit and teach her parents a strategy. It’s the gift my parents gave me, and the lesson is to teach your child that she is enough just because she exists. As I told Oprah when I interviewed her in February 2002 for O Magazine, I am so grateful to my parents because they loved me just for being Kristy.
I didn’t need to be a great piano player or terrific athlete. I didn’t even need to believe in the same things as them. All they ever asked is for me to be the best Kristy I could be. That was enough. They chose to welcome me into their lives, and they loved me from the moment they knew I existed.
I didn’t have to earn the love. It was freely given. Unconditional love sets children free and allows them to know they can do anything. I know many more incredible experiences and gifts will come my way. What I know for sure—none will top unconditional love.
What is something that we might be surprised to learn about you?
I think what folks find most surprising about me is that I am a classic introvert. I am charismatic and energetic in a crowd only if I’ve had enough time to recharge on my own. I figured this out on a cruise with my girlfriends.
We were having a great time, yet I was feeling totally depleted after the second day. So, I told them I needed to go sit on the beach by myself, and I came back feeling so much better. Most of them are huge extroverts, so it was a revelation that I could reenergize by being by myself!
Name three women who have influenced your life, and tell what you’ve learned from each.
Since I’ve talked a lot about fellow Women on Fire, I’m going to introduce you all to some non-Women on Fire who inspire me:
I will never forget a nine-hour drive I took with my grandmother, Meme. Along the way, we discussed a potential big move for me. She said I should “just do it” and told me about her experience of moving from Arkansas to California with my grandfather, mother and aunt.
She’d never been so far away from her home and family, but she even managed to get herself to the hospital to give birth to my uncle when my grandfather was away at sea. I was so impressed by her gumption. I thought, “I come from that; it’s in me too.”
My mother inspires me in countless ways. She is the rock of our family. I think what I find most amazing about her is the way she loves us fully. There is no halfway holiday or celebration in our house — we go all the way.
Love is in the details for her, and she strives to ensure that every detail is well tended. And, when she’s needed, she shows up. once even driving with me from Seattle to Texas with a dog and a cat. I think the hardest thing for her was “letting” me move to Ireland. Despite tears and some questions, her final words were “Do what makes you happy.”
My nieces Kimber and Bryleigh inspire me to be a good example, to show them what you can do when you believe in and love yourself. I write them a letter every month, and each Christmas, I compile a book with pictures of them that their mother, Sara, sends me (she’s pretty inspiring too).
Who cheers you on?
My life is full of cheerleaders. I am humbled by those people around me who deeply care for and love me. While there are countless folks I could name here, I want to recognize someone I love and admire so greatly: my hero, Lo Lyons.
She’s been fighting cancer for more than five consecutive years, and you hit double digits if you count her first bout. Yet, she’s a woman who always has a smile on her face, a hug to comfort me, and genuine concern for what’s going on with me, no matter what she is dealing with.
When I moved to Ireland, she took a selfie and told me “I’ve got my eye on you.” I look at it and laugh often. She’s amazing. When cancer struck the second time, we started using the phrase LOL—Love on Lo. So, Mrs. Lyons, here’s a huge LOL for all the love you give.
What is your favorite “pig-out” food?
This one is so easy for this Texas girl — Mexican food and a cold Margarita!
What are the top three songs on your iPod right now?
For over a year now, my alarm has been Katy Perry’s Roar. The night I moved to Ireland, I listened to Sarah Bareilles’ Brave on repeat as I flew over the Atlantic. Another song I love right now is John Legend’s All of Me.
What is the biggest challenge you’ve ever faced and how did you overcome it?
It definitely wa choosing love. I fell in love with a man, Noel, who lived in Ireland. When I began dating him, I knew he had two young sons, so that meant I had to fall in love with all three of them — there was no partial deal.
I also realized that loving him would require me to dramatically change my life and relocate to Ireland. I couldn’t love Noel the way I do if he was willing to leave Sam and Christopher behind in Ireland and start a new life in the United States with just me. So we dated, and dated and dated long distance for for two and a half years long before I told work and family I planned to move last January.
At the time, I wasn’t sure exactly how it was going to work; I just knew I had to do it. I loved him that much. Having faith that it would all work out well and the courage to make myself completely vulnerable was the hardest thing I’ve ever done.
And frankly, because I love my independence, some days it’s still hard. That said, the joy that has come thus far is already worth the leap of faith. And I know that we’re just getting started.
What is your go-to self-care strategy?
To be literal, I like to “go to” the spa. I’ve never visited a spa I didn’t like! One of my favorite activities is going to a pedicure spa with my friend, Mary, or my mom, sister-in-law, Sara, and my niece, Kimber. I guess now that I have a second niece, Bryleigh, we’ll have to introduce her to Isle Pedispa as well!
When you reflect on your life so far, what is the first word or two that comes to your mind?
I love words so I’ll pick two: courageous and happiness.
More about Kristy Nicholas…
Kristy Nicholas founded Clarity Global Communications to help businesses and people tell their stories and so she could move to Ireland with the love of her life, Noel and his two sons. She has a cat, Tuna, and a dog, Tucker. Kristy previously worked in investor relations and communications at Expedia Inc. and ExpressJet Airlines. Kristy is a Texas girl at heart. Her hobbies include reading, traveling and hosting great celebrations. Kristy would love for you to say hello to her at knicholas(at)clarityglobalcomm(dot)com.
She’s A Woman On Fire! feature is compiled by senior writer Becky Adams.Hybrid Connect Error : Connector could not be found
There’s something you need to know that happens on the way from the spark of your dream – to the success you deeply desire.
It usually takes a loooooong time. And it’s a lot of work.
That’s me standing at the end of a queue for a Cronut®. More in a minute about Cronuts and its creator Dominique Ansel — and why on earth I’d stand in line for an hour for …well, basically a fancy donut.
But first …
Overnight success to achieve your dream is as rare as winning the lottery – even though instant achievement is what we wish for and want to believe is possible!
The expectation that overnight success should come quickly keeps way too many people from eventually seeing their dreams come true. They get frustrated and quit before the miracle happens.
“Anything worth a dime (or damn, depending on his audience!) is worth working hard for,” said Woody Hayes, the late Ohio State University football coach.
Last weekend, in New York City, I came upon two hard-working men who could appear to be “overnight successes” and each inspired the heck out of me!
Both of them put in years and years of hard work before their brilliant business ideas “popped” and they now experience the taste of big success.
First is stationery and gift designer R. Nichols, or Nic, as he’s called.
He worked for many years at Abercrombie & Fitch before launching a product design business in his parents’ basement!
I first learned about Nichols’ exquisite work from Women on Fire member Laura Tiberi who introduced me to his sophisticated, whimsical designs, including his famous “Grati-Pad.”
He knocked on door after door to place his work in specialty stores across the country and at Gump’s, Barneys, Bloomingdales, Neiman-Marcus and others.
Overnight success? Nope.
It’s 14 years later since he was in the basement, so to speak!
He never gave up. Along the way, and I’m sure he’d say he’s still “on his way,” he illustrated the cover and chapter headings for the New York Times’ best-selling bookFrench Women Don’t Get Fat by Mireille Guiliano.
Nichols lives by this: “No matter what I am doing, I always strive to maintain my mission – which is to create joy, if only in small ways.”
Gracious, warm and welcoming, he is a whirl of enthusiasm who keeps his eye on the next beautiful design he plans to create — as more and more people fall in love with his work.
And then there’s Dominique Ansel. The fact that I stood in line for an hour with dozens of others (as had thousands of others in the past months) to purchase my limit of two Cronuts tells you the man’s dream has come true.
He’s no overnight success either. This French pastry chef who started cooking at age 12 slaved away in kitchens for decades before opening his own little bakery in 2011 in Soho.
He kept his pastry case filled with gorgeous, creative, delicious treats.
And then …
He and his team took months to perfect a donut-croissant hybrid that became the Cronut — and started a pastry revolution!
Ansel had no idea this particular pastry would become a success. He went to bed one night, thinking he’d just added another pastry to his repertoire. Only to wake the next day and discover people stood in line for his handmade Cronuts!
Dominique Ansel is a bakery so special now that it has a doorman/security guard to kindly and gently keep the crowd from spinning out of control while they wait in long lines for their sugary treats!
On the day we were there, even the famous Roots drummer, DJ and music producer QuestLove patiently waited in line for his Cronuts, over the shoulder of Women on Fire member Holly Getty.
Still, Ansel knows that being the best at what he does “is a lifetime commitment” and there is no such thing as “overnight success.”
Years ago, I remember listening to an interview with singer Gloria Estefan after she’d won her first Grammy Award. The interviewer referenced her “overnight success,” and she quickly interrupted him.
“I’ve been working in clubs until 3AM for a decade. My success is not overnight.”
R. Nichols’ success wasn’t either. Nor was Dominique Ansel’s. You may be one of the lucky ones to win the instant success lottery.
Regardless, your success is a journey, not a destination.
Women on Fire is here to help you stay on the road during the uncertain and tough times, and then celebrate you when people line up at your door for your version of “Cronuts.”
Have a delicious week!
Women on Fire monthly members, I’ll see you on the Live Chat this Tuesday, November 11 at 8PM Eastern where I’ll talk about The Power of Intention — 7 Ways to Capture and Create What You Desire.
P.S. Great news for Columbus, Ohio-area Women on Fire! You are invited to a Holiday Tea led by Andrea Dowding and co-hosted by Tricia Simpson on Wednesday, December 3, 2014 at the Cambridge Tea House from 4:30 to 7:30pm. Only 10 seats remain — and they will sell out fast! Don’t miss out on this very special opportunity to connect and celebrate with your Women on Fire sisters this Holiday season. Register here!Hybrid Connect Error : Connector could not be found
This month’s Books To Live By selection is a perfect companion to brighten the impending change in seasons, the chaos of the holidays and those quiet winter nights.
From celebrated author and seasoned psychotherapist Gunilla Norris comes one of the best spiritual practice books of 2014.
Our November selection is….
Match: Bringing Heart and Will into Alignment by Gunilla Norris.
Gunilla guides you through a transformational 90-day journey that motivates you to commit to yourself and your inner light. The beauty of her prescribed practice lies within its simplicity and the profound aftereffects.
“For ninety consecutive days, light a match with purpose, a feeling or a desire in mind,” writes Norris. If you happen to miss a day, you simply restart the 90-day countdown. You’ll be inspired and encouraged to not only nurture, but also to fire up your inner most desires, truths and feelings.
As the author of some of my all-time, favorite self-improvement books, such as Inviting Silence: Universal Principles of Meditation and Sheltered in the Heart, I can attest to Gunilla’s expertise in stripping away external and internal barriers to help you get to the heart of whatever it is that you truly want.
Match makes a beautiful gift for the upcoming holiday season and an even better “just because” gift to yourself! Here’s to lighting the spark within this winter!
With lots of love~
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