Who believes in you?

I am in New York City after another fun, inspiring and unforgettable Women on Fire Tea Party.  There were so many wonderfully talented women attending for the first time.  And, they were joined by regulars such as Holly Getty who has attended every single NYC tea party and Shannon McCaffery who has photographed nearly every tea since 2004!

As if I couldn’t get any luckier, I’m now on my way to Columbus, Ohio for a tea party there hosted by Andrea Dowding and Jerry Browning!

Check out the energy and beautiful faces from the New York tea party:

The reason everyone looks so happy is because we’d just spent three hours talking about our lives and what we are “on fire” about!  It was a chance for each woman to speak from her heart and to receive support for her struggles, her triumphs, her plans for the future.

After more than a dozen years coaching women individually, I wish I had a dollar for each time a woman said to me, “I wish I believed in myself half as much as you believe in me.”

(Guaranteed we’d have enough money I could treat each one of you to a spa weekend!)

When other people authentically believe in you, it helps you to see how far you’ve come and what is possible — and it provides much-needed fuel for you to move forward.

During the year and seven months I was compiling and writing the Women on Fire book, I read the praise of Janette Barber’s foreword nearly every single day to stay motivated and on my path.  Her belief in me inspired me to live up to what I wanted to be capable of!

The power of getting together regularly with women who will listen to your dreams and cheer you on (Women on Fire Aspiration #2) will greatly boost your confidence and belief in yourself.

I know from experience being surrounded and supported by warm and caring women has — and continues — to keep me strong and accomplishing much more with their support than alone on my own.  Something to consider:

Who believes in you?

What does that do for you?

Can you think of a time when someone’s belief in you helped you move forward?

Who do you believe in?  (Have you told her lately?)

You know I love hearing what you think.  Feel free to share your answers and thoughts in the comments section below.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Melissa-McClain/1035137558 Melissa McClain

    Oh Debbie! Next time I see you I owe you a dollar for the spa “pool”. Just last week I said this to you! You stepped up for me and believed in me! I'm still so grateful that you went out of your way to show me!

    You know I made a big life change recently and quit my full-time job to focus on my photography and designs. You have been there, along with other amazing WOF and friends, as I've walked this path. I would not have made it without you and others believing in me and giving me the power to believe in myself. So often we are our own worst enemy in life. Standing in our own way of success or true passion. The support I received allowed me to begin to believe and give myself permission to change a situation that wasn't working and follow my dream. In a matter of hours I felt healthier, happier, and more confident. All those who believed in me gave me that gift!

    Debbie, I believe in what you are doing with WOF! I believe in the women I have met who have passions and dreams. I believe in a very special young woman in my life who turned 18 and graduated high school last week. I believe our girls are our future and we need to give them this very powerful gift of verbalizing and showing our belief so they too can grow and evolve and believe in themselves. The world is a better place when we believe in and share ourselves and our gifts!

    I'm pulling from your belief and tomorrow I'm calling the ferry terminal! Thank you for believing!

  • Debbie Phillips

    oh, Melissa, thank you so so much. My pleasure. I applaud you for all of the many, many women you support and shine the light on. I so believe in you!!